Let’s say your dating, not committed, but have been actively seeing someone for a little over a year, you love them, you allow them to know parts of your life, you share secrets, and you feel you can leave your belongings unattended around them, right?

What if you left your laptop open? Would you suspect that they would look thru it when you walked away? What if they logged on to it without your consent? If they went through your emails, your chats, your documents, allllll of your personal information, and the only reason they could tell you was because they can. -If you have nothing to hide, I should be able to help myself to whatever I want…

What if they found some questionable material? Remember your not committed, so what is it really any of their business? What if they asked you about seeing other people and  you said “no” -but maybe you did from time to time, and they’re snooping lead them to “think” they found out differently? Someone who is third party will never understand what is going on between people they don’t have access to. 

Privacy, should be a big deal. If you cannot trust someone to begin with, then you should just move the hell on. Privacy and trust ** I don’t think go hand in hand ** Your privacy, and boundaries should not be pushed because someone has their insecurities. You should allow them to earn they’re trust, but IF you never can shake that feeling, then maybe you should just shake them.

I have spoken in general with many people about this, they all think that no matter what, its wrong to go snooping through someonelses things, weather your married, dating, single, in love, it doesn’t matter.

Now I have created several polls for you to decide and tell me what you think. What you would do, being the sneak, and the sought…