Sexuality, is like duct tape. The first time you use it, it sticks to whomever it touches. But just like that duct tape, if your rip it off and then touch it to someone else, it isn’t as sticky as it was before. So what happens when you pull it loose from one partner after another? You just don’t stick anymore, your sexual partners seem like strangers, and you stop feeling anything.
For some “sowing your wild oats” is a better way of understanding. But at most, it’s an underlying, un-detectable action, that is blind to most women.
Ripping the duct tape off is extremely painful as well, especially the first time – just as the break-up of a sexual relationship can be more painful than a regular one. It may seem progressively easier to “tear off” with subsequent partners, but you can’t make it stick on command when you finally decided to commit.
Science confirms that this isn’t just a clever illustration. Consider oxytocin, a chemical that, among other things, encourages bonding of mates. More about it here. It is no wonder why people form sexual addictions and why encouraging people to experiment with any sexual behavior will lead to some sticky situations…
